The Code of Owners

I am the owner of my life, and every moment is precious to me.

Therefore, I dedicate myself to reaching my full potential — and sharing it with the world.  I will become the person I was meant to be, living the life I want to live, in every moment left to me, beginning now!

I follow these principles without reservation, and work diligently to remove any mental or emotional blocks that interfere with me doing so:

  1. NO WHINING!

    I own my life, so I'm responsible for it.  If I don't like something, I change it.  If I can't change it, or it's not worth changing, I focus my attention on something else.

  2. If It Feels Bad, You're Doing It Wrong

    If I feel stressed or fearful or angry or sad, I know that it's because of what I'm thinking.  So I will think of getting what I want, not about what I don't have.  I will think that I am capable of overcoming obstacles, instead of assuming they will crush me.  I will stop making things harder for myself, and learn to make them easier instead.

  3. You Get What You Think You Deserve

    Animals establish a pecking order to determine who gets "what's coming to them".  But I am a human being, and I don't need to "keep my place" in the pecking order to avoid getting injured or killed!

    I will not treat myself as "unworthy", but will instead ask for what I want, and trade generously to get it.  I will not cheat others, but neither will I withhold enjoyment or fulfillment or compassion from myself, just because I don't think I "deserve" them yet.

    Deserving is for animals.

  4. Suffering Is A Divided Mind

    Whether I'm at work and thinking about home, or at home thinking about work, I suffer.  When my body and mind are in the same place, I am committed.  I am engaged.  I am involved.  And I am fulfilled.  Commitment is flow — and joy.

    Therefore, I let go of everything that is not in the here and now.  And I choose what I want most, instead of just complaining that I have to choose!

  5. Life Is Every Moment

    There is no such thing as the future, except that we think of it now.  So when I work towards a better future, I will enjoy it now, because now is the only moment I have.  I won't wait until "someday" to start living, because my life has already started, and this is it!

    Therefore, I will enjoy each small piece of my vision as I work to make it real.  I may not live to see my vision come alive, but I will certainly see it in my heart... every single day of my existence.

I am an owner, and my life belongs to me: not to my genes, my past, or the people around me.  As of this moment, my life is under new management: my own.

Become The Owner Of Your Life!

The Owners' Circle is a non-traditional self-improvement group for people who want to be "Life Owners": smart and talented people who want to control the direction of their lives, instead of being controlled by their habits or the negative influence of others.  People who want to reach their potential, and share it with the world!

And unlike traditional self-improvement groups, the Owners' Circle is a not a back-slapping networking club where you're forced to talk to strangers.  It is for introverts (and polite extroverts) only!  No-one is ever forced to interact directly with anyone else in the group, in any way whatsoever.  (We don't even meet in person!)

Instead, members receive a variety of regular communications designed to give them that critical repeated and consistent exposure, to the ideas and thought patterns that will help them develop and reach their true potential.

You can visit our main site for more information, or join as a guest member by filling out the form below.  There's no charge or obligation, and we promise not to sell, rent, give away, or otherwise share your email address.  Ever!

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Thanks for your interest, and best wishes in all your endeavors!

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Phillip J. Eby,
Founder, The Owners' Circle