How to Stop Fighting Yourself and Change for Good!
Dear Friend,
Have you ever felt like you were meant to "be somebody"? I mean, you know you're smart, creative, or talented in some way, but you just can't seem to "get out of your own way" or stop struggling with yourself long enough to reach your true potential.
Maybe you've tried self-help books, websites, or courses before, but found them filled with useless platitudes and cliches, or mystic mumbo-jumbo and questionable science.
Or maybe you're just a shy and quiet person who's gone through the indignity of having to rub a stranger's shoulders (or had your shoulders rubbed by a stranger!) at one of those crazy workshops where they try to turn you into an extrovert!
Well, my name is Phillip J. Eby, and I'm not an extrovert, even though I sometimes pretend to be one! In real life, I'm a computer programmer, and I'm highly skeptical of all the outdated or "junk" science and mystical mind-power claims that are all over the self-help world today.
And, I personally wasted 20 years (and more money than I can count!) on self-help books and products that only made slight changes (if any) in my life.
Why? Because I thought knowing about an idea was enough to change a person. But the truth is, the part of your brain that knows things, and the part that does things, are two completely separate parts! Which means that...
Just "Knowing" Things
Won't Really Change You!
You see, even though I've been a computer programmer for 23 years, I always wanted to be an author. But I never did anything about it except dream!
See, I got a lot of insights from reading books, and they helped me get past many kinds of blocks, but they didn't really help me develop myself in a positive way.
Because the only certain way to do that, is to have consistent and repeated exposure to the ideas and thought patterns of people who are already succeeding at getting the things you want in your life.
And once I understood this — and more important, acted on it! — my life started changing. Dramatically!
In less than a year, I wrote and published a book, and put on workshops and seminars that changed lives around the world. And I did it while still working full-time as a computer programmer, even though I had never before been able to "find the time". I even started exercising regularly, despite having hated exercising for most of my life!
So now that I'm reaching my potential, I want to help you reach yours!
Because I believe that you — like me — really can:
Own Your Life, and Change The World!
And that's why I created The Owners' Circle.
The Owners' Circle is a non-traditional self-improvement group for people who want to be "Life Owners": smart and talented people who want to control the direction of their lives, instead of being controlled by their habits or the negative influence of others. People who want to reach their potential, and share it with the world!
And unlike traditional self-improvement groups, the Owners' Circle is a not a back-slapping networking club where you're forced to talk to strangers. It is for introverts (and polite extroverts) only! No-one is ever forced to interact directly with anyone else in the group, in any way whatsoever. (We don't even meet in person!)
Instead, members receive a variety of regular communications designed to give them that critical repeated and consistent exposure, to the ideas and thought patterns that will help them develop and reach their true potential.
Of course, the Circle is not for everyone. Everyone is different, after all. That's why I've created four membership levels, so you can choose the level that will give you the right amount of contact and tools for your level of commitment. As you move forward with taking ownership of your life, you can easily upgrade from one level to another at any time, beginning with...
Level 0: Guest Of The Circle
Guest membership in the Owners' Circle is free and open to anyone with a serious interest in improving their lives (by improving themselves!). It's mainly intended to support those who are just getting started with life ownership, and are not yet ready to make a serious commitment to change.
As a guest member, you'll receive free Life In Every Moment emails (about 3-5 times/week), packed with insights on how to realize your potential, every day of your life!
And, you'll also receive free listen-only access to selected teleseminars (on a first-come, first-served basis), like my January 2007 How To Make Yourself Do Anything workshop.
To join, just fill out the form below. (Don't worry, we won't sell, rent, give away, or otherwise share your email address. Ever!)
Please be sure to include detailed information on your biggest current self-help challenge, so I can tune my emails and workshops as specifically as possible to the people who are participating!
After you click the "Let Me In!" button, our newsletter system will send you a confirmation email with a link that will activate your membership when you click on it. Once all that's done, you'll start receiving your newsletters, plus the links for the "How To Make Yourself Do Anything" workshop and the "Six Master Keys".
Of course, if you're already a guest member, or you're ready to actually start doing something with your life, then it's time for you to move on to...
Level 1: Friend Of The Circle
This membership level is for people who want the tools to make steady forward progress in their lives, rather than just staying in the same place. When you join at this level, you'll receive at least two very special items in the mail each month:
First, you'll receive my Life Without Struggle magazine / newsletter (a $29 value, FREE with your membership). When you see it in your mailbox, you're going to grab it and drop everything else to read it. (Yes, it's that good! Read a sample here.)
And while my blog tells you about my experiences and discoveries, and my email newsletter gives you the reminders and motivation you need to change, this mini-magazine's tips, interviews, stories, and articles will give you the rut-breaking, habit-shattering insights into your brain and life that you simply can't get anywhere else. As one of my readers put it, "You just summed up my year, my life, me, and every one of us on the planet!"
Second, you'll receive my Life-Changing Secrets CD-zine (a $39 value, FREE with your membership). When you pop it into your computer or CD player, you'll hear me (or me and my guests) telling you things about your mind and your life that will change you forever. You will learn things that few people in this world know about — and even fewer understand. And you'll experience things that will make you realize you have far more power to determine how you experience life, than you ever imagined possible. (Listen to sample tracks here.)
In addition to both of these things (and some special top-secret surprises that I'll also mail to you from time to time), you'll get special members-only discounts of 10-50% off on all my "Life Mechanic"-brand self-improvement products, including books, workshops, and more.
So choose a membership plan below, then click the Join Now button to break out of the daily grind and into the life you were meant to have!
Of course, if you really want to turbocharge your life, you won't want to stop with just inspiration, motivation, and insights. You'll want to add the training and coaching you'll get in...
Level 2: Associate Member
This membership level is for people who realize that it takes more than motivation and knowledge to succeed. It takes skill and practice. That's why, when you join at this level, you'll not only receive everything that Guests and Friends of the Circle do, but you'll also get two more things that they don't:
First, you'll get access to the Pathfinders' Forum (a $99 monthly value, FREE with your membership). The Pathfinders' Forum is a private, members-only bulletin board where you can post questions and report your progress, to me and to other Owners' Circle members. If you're serious about making a change in your life, this is the place you want to be, because nowhere else are you going to be able to get the same advice and feedback, at any price.
Frankly, I've been told by some people who've seen how much assistance and help is being given in the Pathfinders' Forums that we're giving away far too much, for far too little money. You could spend more money for an hour on some shrink's couch, and never get an overhaul like the one you may get in the forums. That's because unlike the shrink, none of our members is getting paid by the hour to listen to your problems! We're going to make you get right down to business, and tell us what you really want, so we can tell you what you need to do to get it.
Second, you'll get listen-only access to one of my MindShift™ training sessions each month (a $179 value, FREE with your membership). Each session will teach you powerful mental and physical skills for change. Some are things you've heard about in my blog or elsewhere. Others are entirely new.
You'll learn techniques like how to banish your fears and doubts, rapidly generate new habits or behaviors, and even perform "personality transplants" on yourself. And, you'll get specific instructions on how to put these techniques into immediate day-to-day practice, so you don't just learn "about" these cool techniques in a workshop and then never use them in your life. (The way most people learn about NLP techniques!)
Last, but not least, Associate Members also get free shipping on their monthly print and CD magazines, because hey, who doesn't like free shipping?
Please note, however, that to keep the high quality of discussion and advice in the Pathfinders' Forum, I have to strictly limit the total number of Associate Members. As of right now, this is on a first-come, first-served basis.
So choose a membership plan below, then click the Join Now button to become an Associate Member, while there are still spaces open!
This level works great for the "do-it-yourselfer", who's happy to work things out on their own. Some people, however, would rather take the fast track, by being able to interact live with an expert like me, who can rapidly analyze their situation or limiting thought patterns, and instantly put them on the right track! So if that's you, move right on up to...
Level 3: Full Member
This level is for people who are absolutely serious about transforming their lives and everything in them, NOW. If this is you, then you're going to get everything that "associates", "friends", and "guests" do, PLUS, this is the only level where you get to talk with me personally. As a result, this level is not only strictly limited as to the number of members, membership is subject to an additional screening process. After you've paid your dues, you'll have to fill out an additional application that goes into more detail about your goals and problems, so I can determine whether you qualify for the level of access you're asking for.
That access will include full participation in the MindShift™ training sessions, which means you'll be able to ask me questions, live, and get them answered immediately.
It will include FREE access to special bonus workshops, that everyone else will have to pay to get in on or hear recordings of. For example, in early 2007 I'll be doing a "Willpower-Free Fitness" workshop that will cost others hundreds of dollars to buy their way into or get recordings of. But you, as a full member of the Owners' Circle, will get to attend that session live and ask questions as a participant.
You'll also get monthly REV™ sessions (a $299 value, FREE with your membership). These group coaching sessions will be all about your potential. How to understand what your real potential is, and how to bring it into being. And, how to deal with all the scary things that can come up when you get serious about reaching your potential, like the fear of failure... AND the fear of success. (You might be surprised how much more often the problem is fear of success!)
Last, but not least, as a special, limited-time bonus when you sign up for a full year's membership, you'll also get a free certificate for ONE 30-minute Ambition Ignition™ private coaching session with me. Before the session, you'll have some "homework" to do, preparing a goals list and choosing the top three issues you'd like to work on with me. Then, get ready to change quickly, because I'm going to blow out your old, stuck beliefs and limiting attitudes like a hurricane blowing out the inside of a house! Just make sure you show up for your session on time, and be prepared to let go of who you used to be before you met me!
Once again, this level of exclusive access is strictly limited to no more than 50 members, and you must be qualified. By qualified, I mean that you must:
- Have a positive attitude (because winning and whining can't happen at the same time!)
- Have a burning desire to make something better with your life
- Take personal responsibility for yourself and your life
- Keep an open mind and be willing to try what I teach you
- Be willing to do things, not just learn about them!
You do not have to be organized, disciplined, fit, brave, or have any other boy-scout qualities. You just have to be willing.
(Most people don't realize this, but willingness is much more powerful than so-called "willpower". But you'll learn much more about this in my next book, The Willpower Game, coming in March!)
So, if you are ready to stop whining and start winning, choose a membership plan below, then click the Join Now button to apply for full membership. (Your card will not be charged until your application has been approved.)
Remember, It's All Up to You!
Like I said earlier, it's not what you know that counts; it's what you do. The most sophisticated knowledge and techniques in the world are absolutely useless unless you do something with them! So don't keep putting off your life, the way I did for the last 20 years. How much longer will you waste your potential?
End the waste now, by joining the Circle at the right level for where you are today!
Looking forward to hearing about your future succeses, and feeling the joy that comes with them,
Phillip J. Eby
Founder, The Owners' Circle
P.S. Not sure where to start? Join as a guest member!